Such shoddy lighting this morning, apologies.
Our expectations of life really impact our emotional response to it, we have an odd expectation that life can be plain sailing and predictable, despite this not being the truth for anyone. Life always throws a curve ball at us, there are always bumps in the road. Wouldn't we be better off expecting them, and being less shocked when another challenge comes our way? Where did we get the idea that things only change we want them to?